Define your timeline.

Right then, the first thing I’d like you to do is take a blank piece of paper and a pen (or an iPad and stylus, if that’s your thing), and draw a wavy line from the top-left corner to the bottom-right. Go back to where you started the line and make a small dash coming from it. From here I want you to write where your life journey began – a small reference to your family. Making your way down the line continue to make small dashes marking each with significant milestones in your life where someone or something has had a major impact on your life or career. Mine looks something like this:


Why is it I’m asking you to do this? Well, it’s something I’ve never thought of doing before but it was introduced to the group during the launch of Bromford’s Talent Academy by the fantastic Jeff Grout. For around half an hour Jeff took us on his journey, noting key points and his influential milestones along the way. Working within our tables we were each asked to discuss key moments of our own with one person from each group to be elected to share there’s with the room. We heard some incredible stories; funny, sad, motivational, tear-jerking – but all with a fundamental message of inspirational benefits.

So, who has been the biggest influence on me? It was somebody who’s always been there but who I’ve never really recognised as being quite so inspirational in my life until now; my sister.

From an early age my interest in Art quickly becomes apparent and it was Lynn who supported me with this, giving me tips and ideas on how to get the best out of a composition and create a sense of three-dimension through the clever use of shading. My parents would encourage me to do my homework as soon as I came in from school but instead I chose to play out until dusk and then scramble home on my BMX to get it done before bed – and it was Lynn who would often stay up with me to help get it finished. After successfully completing my GCSE’s she made a big fuss of me and celebrated by inviting me to stay over at her house and get pizza and a DVD.  Don’t get me wrong, we didn’t have the perfect of relationships (I know this story is painting a picture that’s quite the contrary) but trust me, we had our tiffs and squabbles!

After passing my A-Levels I made the decision to go on to University, our Dad wasn’t convinced by the idea but it was Lynn who persuaded him this was a good thing if I wanted to progress with a career in design. So at 22 I came out with my degree but no whiff of a job in design – was my dad right after all?

After short spells working in a supermarket and banking, Lynn prompted me to apply for a job working within Bromford. I’d never heard of them before, had no desire to work within housing and didn’t see myself working in a call centre for the rest of my life but figured that if Lynn had several years’ service already here, it can’t be such a bad place.

Yet to pass my driving test I relied on lifts, so very often Lynn would pick me up in the morning and drop me home each night (she never accepted a penny from me). When she wasn’t available she would arrange for some of her colleagues who lived close by to ferry me to and fro! Thanks to Katie and Marg for this.

Fast forward to 2012 and I’m not far off completing 9 years at Bromford – not bad for somebody with no desire to work in Housing who’d never heard of the organisation before, eh?! Working in the Customer Service Centre was a brilliant time for me. It had its ups and downs but gave me an appreciation for the frontline service of a business and how it impacts with many, many people and services within a business – especially the people we are all here for, our customers. From here I went on to work within the Asset Management Team – helping to deliver the repairs that were issued by the team in my previous role – which then leads me to where I am today; the Neighbourhoods Team.

Everybody takes risks in life; one of my biggest ones was to come into housing with no experience. So was it a wasted degree, far from it! My confidence grew, people skills matured, ability to work with others became more natural, my creativity and innovative mind honed and I’ve now taken these into my role as Project Manager today. But if it wasn’t for the influential figure of my sister I’m certain I wouldn’t be where I am, nor who I am, today.

It’s been quite a journey for me so far but one with plenty more mileage in it yet and much more learning to absorb. To finish I quote Mahatma Ghandi (a favourite of Mick Kent too):

“Live as if you were to die tomorrow. Learn as if you were to live forever.”


As part of our Talent Academy we’ve all been asked to share our journey, this is just the start of mine and I’d love to hear yours too…


2 thoughts on “Define your timeline.

  1. What a brilliant blog! Suzanne was telling me about this timeline and has asked that I complete one for her. I’ve been jotting things down and never realised how much of an influence my Dad is. Never really thought about it before. It’s funny what shapes you! On a seperate note I was quite captivated by your writing in this one! And ‘hear-hear’ to the influencial sister, I have two and they have both shaped my life in different ways. 🙂


  2. Thank you so much for your kind words, Amy. Glad you enjoyed it and that Suzanne has passed this on to get your creative juices flowing!

    It really is an eye-opener isn’t it? Seems we’re all blind to this until we actually start putting pen to paper and the realisation of our biggest influences become apparent. I hope you’ll be sharing your Timeline and story with us all…


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